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200 + Fun Questions to ask your Husband or Your Future Husband

Looking for fun questions to ask your husband or maybe your future husband? Great – you have come to the right place.

In a healthy relationship, it is important to always remember to communicate with each other. When you have been married for a long time, it can sometimes be hard to think of new and interesting questions to ask each other.

Don’t think you always know the answer automatically just because you have been with someone for X years, even if you knew the answer before, people’s perceptions and answers often change and evolve over time. 

This article provides you with more than 200 questions to ask your husband. The questions range from deep and thoughtful, intimate to flirty, to just plain random and fun. These questions will help you learn more about your spouse, no matter how long you have been in a relationship.

The best husband/wife quiz questions here:

200 Fun Romantic questions to ask your husband

What scene in a movie has evoked the most feelings out of you?

Who is the most bizarre person you’ve met?

What is your most cherished childhood memory?

What was the worst phase in your life?

If you could give yourself a nickname, what nickname would you want people to call you?

What would you do if your parents didn’t like your partner?

Is there anything about me you might not know but want to know?

What is the first lie you ever told? Which is the biggest?

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done lately?

What’s the worst or best job you’ve had?

What do you think about when you’re by yourself?

Do you judge a book by its cover?

What are some movies you really enjoyed?

What has been the best period of your life so far?

Is there an activity that calms you? A place or a thing that makes you feel at ease?

What is your greatest fear?

How would you describe your best friend?

What country do you never want to visit?

What food could you not live without?

If past lives are real, what was yours?

What do you like but are kind of embarrassed to admit?

What are some accomplishments that you are really proud of?

What odd talent do you have?

If you found a briefcase filled with 1 million in $100 bills in front of your door, what would you do with it?

Where’s the best place in (your town or city) to have a picnic?

Who is your greatest hero?

How much social interaction is too much?

What setting do you think makes the perfect date night atmosphere?

Do you believe in fate?

What are you most thankful for?

What is the greatest struggle you’ve overcome?

If you could go back in time as an observer, no one could see you, and you couldn’t interact with anything, when would you want to go back to?

Would you rather have an incredibly fast car or incredibly fast internet speed?

questions to ask your husband

Fun conversation starters for Hubby 

What sports would be funniest if the athletes had to be drunk while playing?

What music artist do you never get tired of?

What did you do last summer?

If you had the power to change one law, what law would you change?

What do you do differently than most people?

Who is the most fascinating person you’ve met?

Can you remember a time in your life you felt the most alive? Tell me everything about that memory.

If you could have the answer to any one question, what question would you want the answer to?

What was the best phase in your life?

What’s your favorite restaurant for date night?

What was your best birthday?

What’s happening now, that in 20 years people will look back on and laugh about?

What’s the worst movie you’ve ever seen?

Are you a religious or spiritual person? Tell me why and tell me how.

What sport did you fall in love with?

What household chore is just the worst?

What took you way too long to figure out?

What kind of parent do you think you will be?

What are you kind of obsessed with these days?

What’s your go-to funny story?

Do you have a favorite book? A line in a piece of literature? A poem? Why do you relate to it?

What’s been one of the funniest times we’ve had together?

What’s the strangest phone conversation you’ve ever had?

What makes you feel like you need to be alone?

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done?

What pets have you had?

What’s your biggest pet peeve?

What’s your favorite book/movie of all time and why did it speak to you so much?

What’s your favorite way I touch you?

What are some of your favorite songs?

When do you think a person is ready for marriage?

What are some things everyone should try at least once?

If there was an Olympics for everyday activities, what activity would you have a good chance at winning a medal in?


Funny questions

What do you love most about me?

If you could give everyone just one piece of advice, what would it be?

What physical action or gesture do you find romantic?

What fact floored you when you heard it?

What did you do for (last holiday)? Or What will you do for (next closest holiday)?

If you could have anybody else’s life, who’s would you take?

What made you choose the college you went to?

Who are you closer with your mom or your dad?

What’s the worst advice someone has given you?

What says the most about a person?

What’s the one thing that people always misunderstand about you?

Among your friends, what are you best known for?

What was your longest relationship?

Do you believe more in fate or that we are the creators of our own destinies because we are governed by free will?

Do you believe yourself to be truly free? If so, why? If not, what is holding you back?

What is your biggest accomplishment?

What do you do or where do you go when you need to be alone?

Why did you cry the last time you did so?

Are you more of an indoors or outdoors person?

How did you meet your best friend?

Where would you move if you could move anywhere in the world and still find a job and maintain a reasonable standard of living?

What’s your favorite smell?

Where’s one place you’d like to go that you haven’t been?

What would your perfect vacation look like?

Where have you felt the most failure? The most success?

What’s your go-to series or movie when you want to watch something but can’t find anything to watch?

What’s the hardest you’ve worked for something?

Think about the people you love the most in your life, what do you do for them?

If you lived to 100, would you rather keep the body or the mind of yourself at 30 until you were 100?

What would you do if had enough money to not need a job?


Deep questions to ask your husband

Who is that one person you can talk to about just anything?

Have you ever lost someone close to you?

What were some of the turning points in your life?

Do you usually stay friends with your exes?

Tell me about the facts or harsh truths you choose to ignore but know you shouldn’t.

What are you most grateful for?

What’s your dream date night?

What do you miss about life 10 or 20 years ago?

If you knew you were going to die in a year, what would you change about how you live?

Who besides your parents taught you the most about life?

If you could tell your former self one thing right now what would it be?

What are three things you value most about a person?

What do you care least about?

What’s the last new thing you tried?

Who’s your favorite character from a TV show, movie, or book?

What’s the best road trip you’ve been on?

Would you rather be loved or love?

What could I do to improve our relationship?

Where have you traveled?

If you could do one thing without suffering the consequences, what would

What physical feature of mine is your favorite?

Is there any art or artist you are really into?

How have you changed from when you were in high school?

What’s your most favorite outfit I wear?

What amazing adventures have you been on?

When was the last time you broke someone’s heart?

What’s your favorite piece of furniture you’ve ever owned?

Do you prefer to work in a team or alone?

What’s your favorite alcoholic and non-alcoholic drink?

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done and would you do it again?

If you died tomorrow, what would you wish you had done?

Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?

What’s your favorite beer?

What would you do with the extra time if you never had to sleep?

What do you never get tired of?

What’s something that most people haven’t done, but you have?

If heaven is real and you died tomorrow, would you get in?

What has been the biggest change you ever made that made you the most proud of yourself?


Rapid fire questions for your husband

If the company you work for / the college you go to had an honest slogan, what would it be?

If you could get away with anything that you do?

What song makes you unconditionally sad?

Are you a morning person or a night owl?

What was your first impression of me when we met?

What song do you think of when you think of me?

Are you religious or spiritual?

Where is your favorite place in the entire world to go?

What do you think of best friends of the opposite sex?

Is there something out there, a thought, an idea, a current event, or a fear that you find deeply unsettling?

Did you ever write a journal?

What companies made you so mad that you would rather suffer bodily harm than give them any more of your money?

Where would your friends or family be most surprised to find you?

What’s closest you’ve ever come to being arrested?

How did you come to love your one of your favorite musicians?

What are your thoughts on online dating or tinder?

Have you ever had dreams about a past life?

What’s the greatest risk you’ve ever taken?

What friendship you’ve had has impacted you the most?

What’s something you’re interested in that most people wouldn’t expect?

What’s the best way to get to know who someone really is?

Cutest animal? Ugliest animal?

What is a relationship deal breaker for you?

How often do you dance? Silly/ironic dancing counts.

If I asked you at age 5 what you wanted to be when you grew up, what would you say?

Have you ever seen something you can’t explain?

What fictional character do you most relate to?

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?

What would your best friend say is your best quality?

What’s been your biggest mistake so far in life and what did you learn from it?

If you could take us anywhere in the world right now, where would you take us?


Date night questions to ask your husband

What’s your favorite hobby to do alone?

What is one dream you have yet to accomplish?

Can you pin point the moment in your life where you were the happiest?

What machine or appliance in your house aggravates you the most?

Best and worst flavor ice cream? What would make for an excellent new ice cream flavor?

Before you make a call, do you rehearse what you are going to say?

What did you want to be when you were younger?

If you could send one letter to yourself in the past without the goal of making yourself rich (no lotto numbers, stock picks, etc.), what age would you choose and what would the letter say?

If your life was a movie or a book what would be the title to it?

If you could be anywhere other than where you are right now, where would you be and what would you be looking at?

What’s your favorite band NAME (not necessarily your favorite band)?

What are your top five favorite movies?

What would be your dream job?

What did you do when you hurt someone the most?

Where is the most fun place around where you live?

Who is your favorite historical figure?

When do you feel most out of place?

How do you define beauty?

What’s the most relaxing situation you could imagine?

What are you always game for?

Where does happiness come from? Define what happiness means to you.

On a weekend or holiday, what’s the best time of day and the best time of night?

What’s your favorite holiday?

What’s something you can’t go a day without doing?

What song makes you unconditionally happy?

Would you rather live full time in an RV or full time on a sailboat?

When you were a kid, what seemed like the best thing about being a grown up?

What is the strangest dream you’ve ever had?

What small things brighten up your day when they happen?

What are you looking forward to that’s happening soon?

Questions to ask your husband before you get married

Do you think couples should have a conversation before making any major purchases?

What style of discipline do you plan to take with your kids?

Do you want pets?

Are both spouses equally responsible for financial decisions?

What will your relationship be with your extended family members and in-laws?

Do you think problems in the marriage or family should be discussed with other relatives?

How are your savings and spending habits?

How often would you want to see your extended family? Mine?

Do you intend to raise your kids with a particular religion?

How do bills get paid?

Do you want kids? If yes, how many children would be ideal in our family?

How would you handle it if we have difficulty conceiving?

Do both the husband and wife share equal care for a baby? What about as a child grows older?

Do you have money set aside for retirement?

Who manages the household? Do you believe in traditional gender roles?

What kind of education would you like your children to have?

Do you think married couples should share a bank account?

What is your preferred way to spend holidays?

Would you ever borrow money from friends or family if necessary?

Do you have debt?

Are material possessions important to you?

Do you keep a budget? How would you plan to manage one as a couple?

Do you have a belief in any religion?

Do you think children should be made to do household chores?

Do you use credit cards?

How do you plan to handle any current or future debt?

Do you believe in giving regularly to charity or volunteering your time?

How do you envision your life in five years? Ten years?

How do you tackle obstacles in your life? In a relationship?

What expectations and goals do you have for your career?

Where would you like to spend vacations, whether as a couple or as a family?

Do you feel like you value experiences over things?

What do you think marriage means?

What impact do you want to have on the world?

Where do you want to live?

Questions to ask your husband about you

Who were you closest to growing up, your mom or dad? Or someone else related to you?

What toy was your absolute favorite growing up?

What are your pet peeves?

What possession do you treasure most of all?

What 3 things would you say you’re scared of now?

Would you rather win a Nobel Prize or an Academy Award?

What is the best gift you’ve ever been given?

Would you rather be a billionaire or have an endless supply of knowledge?

Would you rather have the power of time travel or the power to see the future?

Tell me about a mistake you made in a previous relationship, or something you regret.

Do you believe in ghosts or the supernatural?

Who was your superhero or idol growing up?

What one food would you banish from this earth if you could?

What is the correct way for toilet paper to sit on the roll?

What stresses you out most when traveling?

What is the most romantic movie you’ve ever seen?

What’s your favorite part of my body?

Tell me about your most embarrassing moment.

What 5 people, alive or dead, would you invite to a dinner party?

What’s the best advice you ever received?

What makes you feel the most loved?

What’s your favorite memory of me? Multiple memories welcome!

Is there a couple you know that you really look up to?

What is your dream home like?

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to impress a crush?

What do you think would be the most romantic place for us to travel together?

Which of our marriage vows do you think is the most important? (Or if you’re not married, which marriage vow would be most important to you?)

What do I do that irritates you?

What do you think is the ultimate “break up” song?

What is the earliest thing you remember?

What is the worst date you’ve ever been on?

Describe your perfect weekend.

What creature/insect would most creep you out if you found it crawling on you?

Romantic questions to ask your future husband

Am I making you feel protected and cared for in our relationship?

What’s one thing that makes our relationship unique from others?

Do you think any of our friends have a great couple life? Should we follow their example?

Should we try doing something different on special occasions?

Do you believe in astrology? Did you check if we’re compatible in that way?

Do you like hanging out with my friends? Do you feel like you’re my priority when we’re with other people?

Do you think you know all there is to know about me? Would you like to ask me literally anything?

What are your thoughts on cliche movies or very cheesy ones? Do you want to watch one together?

Do you think you’re a jealous person? Am I a jealous person? What do you think about jealousy overall?

What do you daydream about most often?

How would you describe being in love? Is there something in particular you feel?

Do you have any family or cultural traditions that you’d want me to follow too?

Why did you start looking for a romantic partner?

Which one of us is a more trusting person?

Do you have a sexual fantasy you’d like us to do?

What’s one meal you’d like to have for a romantic night?

What do you think is my favorite thing about you?

Do you think we’re like any pop culture couple?

Do you think you’re a “girly girl”/”manly man”?

Do you believe in luck? Did we get together out of chance?

When do you think I’m at my sexiest?

Do you think we had a great first kiss or was it mediocre?

Do you think we have a “love story”? How would you sum it up?

Do you think I try seeing the good in people or not?

Have your thoughts about relationships remained constant throughout your life? Any surprising revelations that you didn’t see coming?

Don’t think about it: why’d you choose me over others?

Do you see us owning property together? Is that important?

Do you believe in staying friends after breaking up?

What do you enjoy doing most when we’re together?

Did you go through a “phase” growing up?



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