200+ This or That questions For Couples to build a Deeper Relationship

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Here you will find 200+ romantic this or that questions for couples. Perfect relationship questions to get to know someone better! Whether you are a married couple of 30 years or newly dating, there is questions for every relationship status.

To some degree, we have tried kept the questions quite generic (and not too dirty or naughty) so you can also play the game with friends or family if you wish. Of course, they are really fun to ask on a at home date night too!

These questions are super fun and can be even made into a DIY game for a fun date. The perfect this or that relationship questions!

200+ This or That questions For Couples

Flirty questions for couples – this or that

Would you rather go to a date to the movies or go bowling?

Would you rather find true love or be a millionaire?

Would you rather date a movie star or professional athlete?

Would you rather have a water balloon fight or paintball fight date?

Would you rather watch the sunset or sunrise?

Would you rather date someone with blue or brown eyes?

Would you rather go on a blind date or meet someone in person?

Would you rather share a milkshake or share spaghetti with your date?

Would you rather go dancing or go to karaoke?

Would you rather have a planned-out date or spontaneous date?

Would you rather get a gift for an anniversary or go on a date?

Would you rather date someone tall or short?

Would you rather someone write you a song or paint you a picture?

Would you rather talk to someone on the phone or through text?

Would you rather someone name a star or flower after you?

Would you rather hold hands of hug?

Would you rather go horseback riding or paddle boating?

Would you rather go on a double date or single date?

Would you rather marry your best friend or a stranger?

Would you rather date someone rich or smart?

Would you rather be asked on a date or ask someone on a date?

Would you rather someone funny or someone serious?

Would you rather date someone older or younger?

Would you rather go on a fun date or romantic date?

Would you rather someone have personality or be good looking?

Would you rather go to lunch or go to dinner?

Would you rather someone cook for you, or you cook for someone?

Would you rather say I love you first or be told I love you?

Would you rather go to a resort or go on a cruise?

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Funny This or That Questions for Couples

Would you rather have a unicorn horn or dog tail?

Would you rather be a famous singer or a movie star?

Would you rather fly on a cloud or slide down a rainbow?

Would you rather be a wizard or a superhero?

Would you rather snowboard during a blizzard or surf during a hurricane?

Would you rather have bright blue teeth or bright blue hair?

Would you rather have a vampire or a leprechaun as a friend?

Would you rather live at Disney or Legoland?

Would you rather have bad breath or smelly feet?

Would you rather have a dinosaur or shark as a pet?

Would you rather have 3 arms or 3 legs?

Would you rather control fire or water?

Would you rather only be able to lie or always tell the truth?

Would you rather not shower for a week or not wash your clothes for a week?

Would you rather sing everything you say or dance every time you walk?

Would you rather walk on all fours or hop on one leg?

Would you rather have a trampoline room or bounce house room?

Would you rather swim in a pool of pudding or jello?

Would you rather have one big ear or one big eye?

Would you rather burp bubbles or sneeze syrup?

Would you rather never blink or blink every second?

Would you rather have an iPad or a laptop?

Would you rather have glasses or braces?

Would you rather be right side up or upside down?

Would you rather be a painting on a gallery or a statute in a museum?

Would you rather have a time machine or have a magic wand?

Would you rather eat a hot salad or eat cold soup?

Would you rather have polka dot skin or stripes?

Would you rather win a vacation or win a new car?

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This or that Questions for Guys

Would you rather be super strong or super smart?

Would you rather be a professional football player or be an Olympian?

Would you rather be 10ft tall or 2ft tall?

Would you rather have a fast car or a big truck?

Would you rather play paintball or go fishing?

Would you rather have an XBOX or a PlayStation?

Would you rather ride a skateboard or bike to school every day?

Would you rather hang out with Spiderman or Superman for a day?

Would you rather climb a mountain or scuba dive to in the ocean?

Would you rather be bald or have facial hair?

Would you rather box a kangaroo or wrestle an alligator?

Would you rather be a pilot or doctor?

Would you rather have a Nerf Gun war or a game of capture the flag with a Lego Castle?

Would you rather wear cowboy boots or Jordans?

Would you rather vacation in a hotel or a cabin?

Would you rather be stuck in slow motion or always running?

Would you rather have a mullet or a mohawk?

Would you rather have endless gym equipment or tools?

Would you rather ride a bull or swim with a shark?

Would you rather wear Nike or Adidas?

Would you rather lift weights or do cardio?

Would you rather climb a water tower or jump out of a helicopter?

Would you rather wear a hat or a beanie?

Would you rather play sports games or Call of Duty?

Would you rather be a sidekick or superhero?

Would you rather have a beard or a mustache?

Would you rather live through a zombie apocalypse or an alien invasion?

Would you rather tame tiger or tame a lion?

Would you rather explore nature or explore a city?

This or that Questions for Girls

Would you rather be a princess or a fairy?

Would you rather always have your hair or nails done?

Would you rather be a cheerleader or a gymnast?

Would you rather wear high heels or flats?

Would you rather have different color eyes or different color hair?

Would you rather have a dolphin or a horse?

Would you rather be able to sing or dance?

Would you rather have hair full of glitter or paint?

Would you rather have unlimited clothes or unlimited make up?

Would you rather be friends with Taylor Swift or JoJo Siwa?

Would you rather have an endless number of dolls or stuffed animals?

Would you rather get marry a Prince or Knight?

Would you have long hair or short hair?

Would you rather have curly or straight hair?

Would you rather live in a castle or a mansion?

Would you rather carry a big purse or small purse?

Would you rather wear jeans or leggings?

Would you rather use lip gloss or lipstick?

Would you rather Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts?

Would you rather have one best friend or 3 close friends?

Would you rather have make-up or no make-up?

Would you rather have a playhouse or dollhouse?

Would you rather have a pink car or purple car?

Would you rather be a queen or princess?

Would you rather have a tea party or picnic?

Would you rather foundation or powder?

Would you rather have bake cookies or bake a cake?

Would you rather have a salon day or a spa day?

Would you rather have something vintage or have something new?

Hard This or That Conversation Starters

Would you rather go to space or the center of the earth?

Would you rather live without air condition or without heat?

Would you rather have no taste or be colorblind?

Would you rather read someone’s mind or control their mind?

Would you rather be able to travel to the future or the past?

Would you rather have no teeth or no hair?

Would you rather be always late or always early?

Would you rather live where it never rains or live where it always rains?

Would you rather give up TV or music for a year?

Would you rather be always hungry or always sleepy?

Would you rather be in your favorite TV show or favorite movie?

Would you rather be top of your class or captain of your sports team?

Would you rather have all boys or girls for your children?

Would you rather give up your laptop or your cell phone?

Would you rather go to a concert or sports game?

Would you rather do the dishes or do the laundry?

Would you rather go on a trip with family or friends?

Would you rather fall own the stairs or be thrown out of a moving car?

Would you rather live without technology or live without humans?

Would you rather have a new car or new house?

Would you rather stop a robber or put out a fire?

Would you rather live without the sun or without the moon?

Would you rather discover an island of an alien?

Would you rather a strong mind or strong body?

Would you rather have flowers or chocolates?

Would you rather have more money or more time?

Would you rather no one show up to your wedding or no one show up to our funereal?

Would you rather live without pillows or live without blankets?

Would you rather be happy or be sad?

Food

Would you rather have unlimited tacos or unlimited sushi?

Would you rather eat everything with ketchup or everything with ranch?

Would you rather have a picnic or eat at a restaurant?

Would you rather eat cookie dough or brownie batter?

Would you rather eat a Krabby Patty or Pizza Planet Pizza?

Would you rather only eat sweets for a year or never eat sweets for a year?

Would you rather have to eat everything hot or eat everything cold?

Would you rather give up fast food or only eat canned food?

Would you rather give up fruits or vegetables?

Would you rather eat spicy food or eat salty food?

Would you rather have chips or fries?

Would you rather have McDonalds or Burger King?

Would you rather have an appetizer or dessert?

Would you rather ice cream or cake?

Would you rather tacos or burritos?

Would you rather eat everything with a spoon or fork?

Would you rather drink only water or only milk?

Would you rather chocolate or vanilla?

Would you rather eat everywhere for free or travel everywhere for free?

Would you rather cook your own food or have someone cook for you?

Would you rather popsicles or ice cream?

Would you rather Coca-Cola or PepsiCo?

Would you rather a hotdog or hamburger?

Would you rather white rice or fried rice?

Would you rather pineapple or pepperoni on pizza?

Would you rather pancake or waffles?

Would you rather eat dinner for breakfast or eat breakfast for dinner?

Would you rather eat cheese dip or salsa?

Would you rather chocolate milk or hot chocolate?

Deep this or that questions to get to know someone better

Would you rather bring someone back to life or save someone’s life?

Would you rather go to college or go to work right away after high school?

Would you rather have your dream career or meet the love of your life?

Would you rather have the same job for the rest of your life or change jobs every year?

Would you rather have a dirty house or a dirty car?

Would you rather change people’s minds or change people’s hearts?

Would you rather bite your tongue every time you eat or always get a paper cut when you touch paper?

Would you rather live alone on an island or live in a big city?

Would you rather spend a week with your enemy or a year without your best friend?

Would you rather always say what you are thinking or never speak again?

Would you rather live without hope or live without love?

Would you rather have the same dream every night for a year or live the same day over for a week?

Would you rather move to another city or move to another country?

Would you rather have a big family or a small family?

Would you rather be remembered for something horrible or not be remembered at all?

Would you rather find the cure for cancer or solve world peace?

Would you rather win the lottery or not pay taxes?

Would you rather have a small present every week for a year or one big present once a year?

Would you rather tell someone your darkest secret or be embarrassed publicly?

Would you rather have a private jet or private island?

Would you rather meet your hero or be a hero?

Would you rather play a board game or a card game?

Would you rather have a pool or hot tub?

Would you rather live a short life or a long life?

Would you rather sleep or stay up all night?

Would you rather change the world or change a person’s heart?

Would you rather die in 20 years with no regrets or die in 40 years with many regrets?

Would you rather get even or get over it?

Would you rather read someone’s diary, or someone read your diary?

Interesting

Would you rather have a personal chef or a maid?

Would you rather be rich with no friends or poor with friends?

Would you rather stay at home or take a trip?

Would you rather watch a movie or read a book?

Would you rather have no kids or 10 kids?

Would you rather spend a holiday alone or with people you don’t like?

Would you rather live in Europe or Asia?

Would you rather hear the good or bad news first?

Would you rather never stop joking or always be serious?

Would you rather win an Olympic medal or Nobel Peace Prize?

Would you rather drive a motorcycle or a car?

Would you rather navigate with a map or a compass?

Would you rather visit all 50 states or visit 50 countries?

Would you rather be the oldest sibling or the youngest?

Would you rather be the president or the pope?

Would you rather always have the hiccups or always having to sneeze?

Would you rather have a garden or a farm?

Would you rather celebrate Halloween or Christmas?

Would you rather read a Marvel or DC comic?

Would you rather Go to Disneyworld or Disneyland?

Would you rather be covered in glue or be covered in mud?

Would you rather live in NYC or LA?

Would you rather fly American Airlines or Delta?

Would you rather use Twitter or Facebook?

Would you rather listen to a podcast or an audiobook?

Would you rather have rolls or wrinkles?

Would you rather be an author or an editor?

Would you rather watch a sports game on TV or in person?

Would you rather sunbathe or get in the water?

Would you rather watch Netflix or Disney+?

Icebreaker Questions

Would you rather be an early bird or a night owl?

Would you rather have sweet or salty food?

Would you rather have a dog or cat?

Would you rather live somewhere hot or somewhere cold?

Would you rather travel by train or a plane?

Would you rather have breakfast or dinner?

Would you rather watch a funny or scary movie?

Would you rather listen to country or pop music?

Would you rather build a snowman or sandcastle?

Would you rather be fireman or policeman?

Would you rather drink coffee or tea?

Would you rather be in a Disney movie or a Harry Potter movie?

Would you rather go to Mars or go to the Moon?

Would you rather be invisible or be able to fly?

Would you rather be the richest person in the world or the smartest person in the world?

Would you rather no be able to talk or not be able to read?

Would you rather go to the pool or the beach?

Would you rather shop online or in store?

Would you rather live in apartment or a house?

Would you rather have a flat tire or broken steering wheel?

Would you rather go to the farmers market or grocery store?

Would you rather be bite by a snake or a spider?

Would you rather wear shoes or go barefoot?

Would you rather eat Japanese food or Chinese food?

Would you rather watch a scary movie or a funny movie?

Would you rather use a pen or pencil?

Would you rather go to an aquarium or a museum?

Would you rather have freckles or dimples?

Would you rather use Spotify or Apple music?

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