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100+ Flirty Questions to Ask Your Crush In Person Or via Text

Looking for Flirty Questions to ask your crush?

Whether you are planning an at home date night or just looking for something cute to text that special someone you like, we have you covered.

If this special someone is still just a crush you will want to invest some time getting to know them better – on a deep and a superficial level – both are important.

Some of the very best things to ask your crush right here!

Questions to ask your crush over text

Let’s face it, over text is one of the best times to ask your crush flirty questions. You can even ask ones you are a little too shy to say in person. Plus, fun texting between a couple really keeps the relationship fun and interesting, don’t you think?

If you are looking for flirty questions to ask your crush while texting, we have you covered. 

Good Morning Handsome! Hope you have a fabulous day! Will you miss me?

What outfit should I wear tonight?

I can’t stop thinking of you. Are you thinking of me?

You really get me. Do you feel the same?

Could you beat me at an arm wrestle?

Had trouble sleeping last night as I was missing you to snuggle. How were you feeling?

Do you remember when (x) ?

I’m getting butterflies just thinking about seeing you later. How do you feel?

The thought of you makes my morning more bearable.  Penny for your thoughts?

What’s the hype with threesomes anyway?

It might be hard but you just gotta try to stop thinking about me. K?

Sending you a big kiss and smile to make sure your day starts our fabulous! Send me one back?

I was totally never a morning person until I met you!

Wakey Wakey hand of Snakey.

What always makes you smile?

You’re my whole world

How did I get so lucky?!

I was just thinking about you. What are your thoughts?

You definitely need to come over. I have all your favs – Pizza, Beer, and of course…Me!

You are perfect in every way imaginable.

Do you have any room for little old me in that busy schedule of yours?

I like you more than I like fries. That’s saying something!


Questions to ask your boy crush 

Here are some fun questions to ask a guy who is also of course your crush! We have included some that are a little sexy/dirty but mostly PG questions to really get to know him.

When you are just starting to date someone new, it is important to ask the hard questions to really know if the two of you are compatible. 

What is your favourite body part?

How would you handle someone hitting on a girl you like?

 Who was your first ever crush?

What do you like most about yourself?

What is the kindest thing you have ever done?

What is the proudest moment of your life?

Would you consider yourself a romantic?

What is the most romantic thing you have ever done for a girl?

What is your idea of a perfect date?

What do you look for in a girl?

How do you feel around me?

What is your favorite childhood memory?

So, do you work out or what?!

Do you prefer bars or clubs?

Would you consider yourself a Momma’s boy?

What are you most afraid of?

 What is something that you’re super passionate about?

If you could ever be really smart or really good looking – which would you pick?

What blows you away as far as women are concerned?

So, how much do you love kisses?

How would you describe your perfect kiss? 


Cute Questions to ask your girl crush 

If you are looking for questions for your female crush, we also have you covered with the best questions to get to know her on a deeper level:

What do you look for in a guy?

Why do you like me?

What do you like the most about me?

What in particular draws you to me?

What do you feel is the cutest part about yourself?

Do you consider yourself a feminist?

What do you like most about yourself?

Where is the strangest place you’ve ever kissed someone?

What is the best part about being in a relationship?

What is the most attractive quality a person can have?

What is the kindest thing you have ever done?

Do you prefer going to the gym or going for a walk?

What is the proudest moment of your life?

Who is your favorite person?

What is your idea of a perfect guy?

What is your least favorite food?

What is your opinion of my fashion and style?

Do you get lots of creepers trying to message you?

What is your favorite childhood memory?

So, do you work out or what?!

Do you like small gatherings or big parties?

Do you prefer introverted and extroverted individuals?

Do you prefer bars or clubs?

What are you most afraid of?

Are you shy or outspoken?

If you could ever be really smart or really good looking – which would you pick?

What do you find irresistible about me?

What did you think when you first saw me?


21 questions to ask your crush

Have you ever heard of the game, 21 questions? It is a fun date idea especially as part of a rainy day date when you are stuck indoors. If you feel like playing the game, here are some questions you can use:

Who is your celebrity crush?

Why did your last relationship end? 

What’s the best gift you’ve ever received and who was it from?

What is your favorite thing about your career?

What names were ruined for you because you knew someone terrible with that name?

Have you been into any serious relationship before?

When in life have you been most nervous?

Which fictional villain made you feel real hatred towards?

What is your idea of a perfect date?

Where is your favorite place in the world?

What are your top five favorite movies?

What’s your zodiac sign?

What is your favorite word?

Tell me your three biggest pet peeves?

What was your first impression of me when we met?

If you were to start a family somewhere in the world, where would it be?

When did you have your first kiss?

Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?

What breaks your heart?

What motivates you to work hard?

What’s the grossest thing you’ve drunk? 

What are you passionate about?

What is your best hobby?

Who is your hero?

What is the saddest thing that is happening in the world right now?

Where have you traveled to before?

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

What really makes you angry?

Flirty questions for the question game

Questions games are so fun! Whether you are planning an intimate night in with your partner or are having a party, here are some fun “question games” to play.

Never have I ever taken part in a musical

Never have I ever spied on my neighbours

Never have I ever gone on instagram live while drunk

Never have I ever watched the Real Housewives

Never have I ever gotten into the wrong car

Never have I ever been kicked out of a bar

Never have I ever ate food that fell on the floor

Never have I ever had a fist fight

Never have I ever fell asleep in the cinema

Never have I ever used a dating website

Never have I ever found love at first sight

Never have I ever forgotten my partners birthday

Never have I ever thought the person I was dating wasn’t attractive

Never have I ever done something I regret

Never have I ever said something I shouldn’t

Never have I ever gone on a double date

Never have I ever danced in the rain

Never have I ever pooped my pants

Never have I ever missed my flight

Would you rather flirty questions to ask your crush

Would you rather questions are another type of question game that are fun to play with your crush. Here are a few good questions to ask:

Would you rather fly a kite or hike a mountain?

Would you rather be covered in fur or covered in scales?

Would you rather live in a sailboat or in a RV?

Would you rather star in a romantic comedy or a horror movie?

Would you rather see your girlfriend with or without makeup?

Would you rather be really similar to a partner or completely different?

Would you rather pay for a meal or have someone pay for you?

Would you rather never be able to go out during the day or never be able to go out at night?

Would you rather lose your sight or your memories?

Would you rather be the first person to explore a planet or be the inventor of a cure?

Would you rather be rich or famous?

Would you rather be royalty 1,000 years ago or an average person today?

Would you rather always have B.O. and not know it or always smell B.O. on everyone else?

Would you rather live in a tree house or in a cave?

Would you rather live in a city or in the countryside? 


Deep questions to ask your crush

Sometimes to get to know someone it is necessary to ask deeper questions. Here are some of the best deep questions to ask your crush in person or over text.

What kind of parent do you think you will be?

Are you confrontational?

Where is your favorite place in the entire world to go?

What’s your favorite book/movie of all time and why did it speak to you so much?

What habit do you have that you think not many other people have?

What’s the spiciest thing you’ve eaten?

Who was the best ever US President?

What’s been your biggest mistake so far in life and what did you learn from it?

What did your past relationship teach you?

What’s your philosophy in life?

What is the best thing to ever happen to you so far?

What would you do if your parents didn’t like your partner?

Are you religious or spiritual?

If colors had a taste, what would each color taste like?

What is your fav starbucks drink?

Funny questions to ask 

In every successful relationship humour is absolutely key. Here are some funny questions to ask your crush if you want to keep the relationship fluffy and lighthearted.

Tell me about the last time you tripped over?

Have you ever shat your pants?

What is the most embarrassing thing to have ever happened to you?

What is one dare you just wouldn’t do?

What is your best joke?

Would you do x for $100?

If you got stranded on an island, what one thing would you take with you?

When you’re 40 and a Dad are you happy with a Dad bod?

Intimate questions to ask your crush

To round off, here are a few extra intimate questions to ask your crush:

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Would you rather be incredibly intelligent or incredibly happy?

Would you like to be in a relationship?

What is your favorite possession in the whole world?

How do you feel when around me?

What makes you, you?

Who is the most important person in your life?

What are some things that make you sad?

Did you have a happy childhood?

What is the #1 most important trait in a partner?

Would you rather live 1000 average years or 100 excellent years?


See more:

Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy

Flirty Questions to ask a Girl

Flirty Texts for Her

Flirty Texts for Him

21 questions to ask 

Never Have I ever Questions for Couples

Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Love Messages for Him

Favorite questions to ask