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151+ Fun Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl You Like Next Date!

Going on a date with a special girl! It can be soooo stressful knowing what to ask! Never fear here are 151+ Flirty Questions to ask a girl that just might come in handy!

Flirty questions can be the perfect way to spark intrigue, get to know her better, and keep the interaction light-hearted and enjoyable. From cheeky inquiries about her favorite date ideas to teasingly uncovering her romantic preferences, flirty questions create a delightful dance of wit and charm.

But remember, the key is to be respectful, gauge her comfort level, and keep the conversation reciprocated. So, get ready to dive into a world of flirtatious fun as we present you with irresistible questions to make her heart skip a beat.

You might even like to use some of these flirty questions as flirty texts for her (or flirty texts for him) later! Possibly even as some fun Tinder Pick up Lines

151+ Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl

Look it’s true – date conversations can get awkward. Maybe you are not a match but how are you ever going to know if you fail to ask any questions? Here are some flirty questions we thought of to avoid the conversation getting awkward at all!

Questions About You

Girls love it when you ask them questions – it hows them that you are interested in them. With these flirty questions, you will get to know exactly what she thinks of you

  1. What would you say are the aspects that draw you to me?
  2. Name 3 of my body parts that you like the most?
  3. What color do you think would look best on me?
  4. If you could change something about me, what would it be?
  5. If I was a flower, what kind of flower would I be?
  6. What is something that you think sets me apart from other people?
  7. What famous actor do you think I’m most like?
  8. Do you like my outfit?
  9. What was your first thought about me?
  10. What do you think is my favorite food?
  11. If we were to go on another date, where would you take me?
  12. What is refreshing about me?

If you prefer a “Question Game” that does the hard work for you, here some of our favorites you could pick up:


Questions About Her

Let’s face it, girls love it when you aren’t ALL about yourself – she wants to know you actually care about her – after all you went on a date with her. So with no further adieu, here are some fun flirty questions to ask about her!

  1. What do you like most about yourself?
  2. What is the kindest thing you have ever done?
  3. Do you prefer going to the gym or going for a walk?
  4. What is the proudest moment of your life?
  5. Who is your favorite person?
  6. What is your least favorite food?
  7. Fav pizza topping?
  8. Are you an adrenaline junkie?
  9. Would you consider yourself a romantic?
  10. Do you consider yourself a feminist?
  11. Do you get lots of creepers trying to message you?
  12. What is your favorite childhood memory?
  13. So, do you work out or what?!
  14. Do you like small gatherings or big parties?
  15. Do you prefer bars or clubs?
  16. What are you most afraid of?
  17. Are you shy or outspoken?
  18. If you could ever be really smart or really good looking – which would you pick?
  19. What’s your favorite way to spend a lazy Sunday morning?
  20. If you were to plan our dream date, what would it entail?
  21. What’s the most adventurous thing you’d love to do with a partner?
  22. What’s your guilty pleasure when it comes to food?
  23. Have you ever had a secret crush on someone you shouldn’t have?
  24. If you could choose any fictional character as your date, who would it be?
  25. What’s the most romantic gesture you’ve ever received?
  26. What’s your favorite compliment that someone has given you?
  27. If you could read minds for a day, whose mind would you want to read?
  28. What’s your favorite thing about yourself that you’d want someone else to notice?
  29. What’s your favorite thing to wear that makes you feel confident and attractive?
  30. If we were to escape for a weekend getaway, where would you want to go?

See more: flirty questions to ask your crush


Love Questions

Even if it’s a bit embarrassing to admit – that’s why you are there, in search of love. So let’s see if you two are a match –

  1. Do you believe in love at first sight? (
  2. What do you see in your future?
  3. How many kids do you want?
  4. Do you believe in fate or destiny?
  5. What does love mean to you?
  6. What is your favourite romantic movie? 
  7. Do you see me falling for you?
  8. Do you believe you can live a life without love
  9. What do you think is the best pick up line?
  10. What do you think is the worst pick up line?
  11. Have you ever used a pick up line to get a guy?
  12. Love or money? 
  13. Describe your ideal relationship?

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Past Relationships

When asking flirty questions about a girl’s past relationships, it’s essential to tread lightly and respect her boundaries. While curiosity is natural, remember that discussing past relationships can be sensitive. 

Do you want to know or not? If you do, here are some flirty questions to ask about past relationships that can help you get to know her better without prying too much into her past. Flirting just makes the questions easier to ask 😉

  1. What qualities do you look for in a guy?
  2. What was the shortest relationship you have had?
  3. What is the longest relationship you have ever had?
  4. What is the most romantic thing you have ever done?
  5. Did he think you were a romantic?
  6. Would you change something you did in your last relationship?
  7. Do you think you would make a good girlfriend?
  8. Why did your last relationship end?
  9. What is a deal breaker in a past relationship?
  10. What did your last relationship like most about you?
  11. What did your last relationship dislike most about you?
  12. What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned from your previous relationships?
  13. Have you ever had a memorable first date experience?
  14. What’s the most romantic gesture someone has done for you in the past?
  15. If you could give your past self one piece of relationship advice, what would it be?
  16. What’s your favorite thing about being in a relationship?
  17. Do you believe in second chances when it comes to love?
  18. What’s your idea of a perfect date, based on your past experiences?
  19. What’s one relationship cliché you secretly love?
  20. Have you ever had a memorable love story moment that feels like it’s straight out of a movie?
  21. If you could go back in time, what’s one thing you would change about your dating history?

Remember, the goal is to keep the conversation light-hearted and playful. Avoid delving too deep into her past relationships or asking about sensitive topics. Instead, focus on building a connection in the present and exploring the possibilities of a fun and flirty future together.

Questions About Sleep

If you don’t appreciate sleep as much as me you can probably skip these next questions. But sleep schedule is kinda sorta a deal breaker for some. Like – are you are blanket hog?

  1. Do you like sleeping in or are you an early bird?
  2. Do you like cuddling?
  3. What kind of pillow is your favourite?
  4. How well do you sleep in hotel rooms?
  5. you prefer being the big spoon or the little spoon?
  6. Are you a light sleeper?
  7. What was your worst nightmare?
  8. Do you often have dreams?
  9. What time do you normally go to sleep?

Cheeky Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl

These ones are a little cheeky but hey if you are game, go right ahead! 

  1. What would you do If I kissed you right now?
  2. What is your biggest turn on?
  3. What is your biggest turn off?
  4. Do you prefer cuddling or kissing?
  5. What are your favourite pet names? Babe, Cutie etc. Which don’t you like?
  6. Want to know a secret?
  7. Would you ever have a sugar daddy?
  8. Who was your teacher crush?
  9. There is just something about you, I can put my finger on. Do you know what it is?
  10. What do you wear to go to sleep?
  11. I just want to know how on earth are you still single?
  12. Do you have a secret fantasy?
  13. Do you have a foot fetish? (Sorry I just had to find out if you had been on Jerry Springer)

See also: Best icebreaker questions for dating


Random Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl

Okay some random questions for you:

  1. What are you thinking about now?
  2. So… do you have plans this weekend or?
  3. What do you think I am thinking about right now?
  4. How you doin’? (Our friend Fabio would use this one)
  5. What is your type in guys?
  6. What is your spirit animal?
  7. Who was your favorite cartoon character as a child?
  8. When was the last time you experienced butterflys?
  9. You really don’t know how cute you are, do you?
  10. Do you know you have the most amazing eyes? What color are they?
  11. Would you say I am your usual type?
  12. Do you like hugs?
  13. If you have 3 wishes, what would they be?
  14. Do you believe in having a soul mate?

Fun Questions

Okay just some random, fun flirty questions to ask her:

  1. When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried?
  2. Have you ever peed your pants (be honest!)
  3. Would you rather still be friends with an ex or never talk to them again?
  4. Would you rather jump into a pool of custard or apple pudding?
  5. Are you a fan of public displays of affection?
  6. If we were stranded on a desert island, what are 4 things we should bring?
  7. If you died, would you rather your spouse marry your best friend or someone you hated?
  8. Would you rather dance in a club or under the moonlight?
  9. Truth or dare?
  10. How many days have you gone without changing your underwear? (BE honest)
  11. Would you ever do a nudie run?
  12. Would you ever visit a nude beach?

Cute Questions

Too cute to be true! Here are my fav cute questions to ask a girl:

  1. Do you think you are a reliable person? What is the most reliable thing you have done?
  2. Are you funny? Tell me a joke and i’ll be the judge!
  3. So, why is it worth taking a chance on you?
  4. Are you a heartbreaker?
  5. Starter, main or desert?
  6. If you could have one superpower what would it be?
  7. If you had to pick either coffee or tea to drink forever, which would it be?
  8. What is the cutest thing you have ever done?
  9. What is the kindest thing you have ever done?

Flirty Would you Rather Questions For Couples

  1. Would you rather a day at the beach with me or a day skiing?
  2. Would you rather 1 million dollars or finding the love of your life?
  3. Career or love?
  4. All girls as kids or all boys?
  5. Orange or Purple?
  6. 24 hours of sunlight or 24 hours of moonlight?
  7. Would you rather chocolate or lollies?
  8. Would you rather your dream guy or fame?
  9. Would you rather starbucks or a little coffee shop?
  10. Would you rather fall or spring?

Questions About Life

  1. Here are some very important flirty questions to ask a girl about life:
  2. Do you ever think you’d be a baby mumma?
  3. How many kids do you see yourself having?
  4. What do you think your family and friends would say about me?
  5. Do you prefer dogs or cats?
  6. What’s the most exciting thing that happened to you today?
  7. Tell me something that I don’t know about your life?
  8. What are 3 most important things on your bucket list?
  9. What is your first memory?
  10. Have you ever thought of an age you would like to be married by?
  11. What does marriage mean to you?
  12. Could you marry someone outside your faith?
  13. What is your favourite memory?
  14. Do you like to party?
  15. Where do you see your life in 5 years time?
  16. What is the worst thing that ever happened to you?
  17. Would you rather be rich or famous?
  18. If you won 1 million dollars, how would you spend it?

Questions About Entertainment

Entertainment is very important. If your entertainment preferences don’t align, dare I say it, this might just be over before it has even begun!

  1. What is your favourite way to relax?
  2. Are you a Netflix Guy?
  3. Do you prefer bars or clubs?
  4. Do you prefer to work out in a gym or outside?
  5. Do you like to watch tv alone or with a partner?
  6. What type of music do you like?
  7. What song would you dance to at your wedding?
  8. Who is your male celebrity crush?
  9. Who do you think is the hottest female celebrity? (You have to pick ;))
  10. Would you ditch your boyfriend if you celebrity crush wanted a date?

Flirty Questions About Food

As a self-described foodie, here are some very important questions about food to ask your potential new soul mate:

  1. What is one food you can’t live without?
  2. Is there any food you would give up a relationship for?
  3. What food do you dislike the most?
  4. Do you like whipped cream?
  5. Would you be into body paint?
  6. Would you consider yourself a foodie?
  7. If you had to eat one food for the rest of your life what would it be?
  8. Do you believe in aphrodisiacs?
  9. What would be your green mile meal? 

Questions About Travel

In my opinion, a girl who likes to travel is a keeper. Or, you might think the opposite. But it is great to know if your thought on travel align:

  1. Would you say that you are an adventurer?
  2. Are you a homebody or an explorer?
  3. Do you prefer to explore locally or go on an overseas trip?
  4. Could you be with a guy who didn’t want to travel?
  5. If we could time travel, to what age or era should we go?
  6. Would you rather go to space or to another country?
  7. What country is at the top of your bucket list?
  8. Would you travel to another country and live there for love?
  9. If you could have your dream job, but it was in another country, would you go for it?
  10. China or India?
  11. What is your worst trait when traveling?


Oh, by the way, If you are looking for a sweet date idea to ask these questions, here are some of our best ideas:


So what did you think of our ultimate list of Flirty Questions to ask a girl? Did you find something juicy to ask?

If you are already married, you may find some better questions in our questions for married couples. You also might enjoy our Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples.

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  • MC Miller

    MC Miller is a travel blogger and writer who has travelled America extensively and abroad to over 80 countries. He founded Couple Travel The World in 2017. Since then, he has spent over 6 years on the road as a full time travel couple. When he not traveling he likes to spend quality time with his partner Bett, planning our their next date or romantic getaway!


Saturday 19th of August 2023

Personally, I've had success trying picking something to say from their profile pictures. If they have a photo of a cat, I might add a "hey there pussycat" to break the ice. Works for me but obviously depends on the girl and what she likes